Well. First of all, make yourself into the person you want to be. That’s the most important thing. Do what you want with your hair, make sure you’re happy with your body, wear cute underwear, eat things that make you happy. Find a hobby and get amazing at it. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself how amazing you are. List at LEAST two things that you like about yourself every day. Try not to compare yourself to others (I struggle with this bit). Find an outfit that makes you feel great and wear it on your favorite day of the week.
Find what makes you happy and focus on it. Try and find when you feel the most confident and try to recreate that situation often.
I loved this the second I saw it on my dash. This is an awesome, concise, and inspiring list of ways to gain confidence in yourself. I already do some of these things and in some ways am already a confident person, but I really do struggle with some of them and would love to be able to say I actively engage in every one of the items on this list. Everybody should love who they are. Loving yourself is so important when it comes to being happy.
Even though sometimes you can get stuck in a rut in life, or you can feel like the work you’re putting towards a goal is endless, you can always focus on yourself and use that to stay happy. Being positive, loving yourself, and being happy are daily activities, and I think it never hurts to be reminded of that.
Dismay or enslave you, it will set you free
Be more like the man you were made to be.